Shocked Stupid

I talked to T's ex-gf today, she says she is pregnant. She believes the child is T's I am totally stupefied.

What was strange about the conversation was that God wouldn't let me cuss her out. He used me to show her that we were both deceived. I began by telling her that T really is a good man, he has just made some poor choices. It was surreal.

I couldn't believe that I was being nice to the lover of my husband. She took my place in his life for over 3 months and I was abandoned and neglected. I can only say that I really feel that T screwed up her life , well all of our lives, royally. Now we ALL have to pick up the pieces.