Today we had our first marriage counseling session. It went extremely well. it hurt to hear Torrey talk so casually about his affairs. However our Psychologist Dr. Treegoob was courteous and supportive. He said it is VERY rare for a woman to forgive her spouse enough to commit to renewing the marriage.
He explained to Torrey that he had a marital "re-do, meaning that we can start over and make out marriage stronger. Hearing him praise us for wanting to stay together and make this work. Well it made me want to work all the harder to restore and strengthen our marriage.
Now that we for thought the first we just need to push forward.
The ex-gf called again today. She said that she is waiting patiently for Torrey to prove or disprove his paternity for her child. She says she's called in a favor to a Doctor that she used to work for in Cali. She is either going to have an abortion on Sunday of she's going to have it on the 6th. Hopefully this means her contact with us is over and she's out of our lives for good.
29 January 2009
Do-Over
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